I probably don’t have to tell those of you who are unemployed and actively networking along with your job hunting how much work all of this is and how frustrating it is to keep putting yourself out there day after day. Many days I am very weary of the process and would like to run away. When I hear the numbers about new jobless and total jobless, I wonder how many of those that have been out of work for a while are no longer looking, depression having won. Just yesterday I heard about a woman I met about four months ago who is in therapy because she is so depressed about not finding a job.
I know someone else who is struggling to overcome the self-esteem bruising that occurs with job loss; how demoralized one feels, sometimes to the point of immobility and how very dangerous that is to moving forward.
While I have my moments of frustration and depression, I have been very fortunate to have a good support system that extends beyond my wonderful husband and family:
A dear friend is to be in Dover and wants to take me to lunch at The Barn. I’m very excited about the prospect of catching up, hanging out, being in a different environment, and grateful for the blessing of that friend in my life. Another dear friend who blesses my life regularly sent me a lovely note of encouragement and a gift card for our favorite ice cream stand — Dover Delite. Yum!
If you know someone who is out of work (and I daresay there are probably very few of you reading this who are either not working yourself or know someone in that boat), take a minute to shoot an email, make a phone call, send a card saying that you are thinking about, praying for, wishing well, that individual …
It’ll make a big difference for both of you.